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THE ASK© for Everyday Living


According to OPRAH, “You get in life what you have the courage to ASK for.”

THE ASK© for EVERYDAY LIVING is today’s all-new self-help, motivational series from multi-million dollar A$K-maker LAURA FREDRICKS who, as Founder & CEO of THE ASK©, puts the world of asking into perspective by teaching everyday audiences how to confidently and successfully ASK for what they need, want and deserve. THE ASK© provides coaching, training and proven best practices to help both women and men build life-enhancing skills that:

  • BOOST self-worth to ASK for vital everyday resources
  • EMPOWER positive and powerful ASKING experiences
  • ENHANCE self-confidence and personal pride to ASK
  • INCREASE $$$$ opportunities and financial sustainability
  • TRANSITION the unexpected into leveraged opportunities
  • WEAVE enjoyment into tough-to-discuss ASKING issues

In essence, THE ASK© helps you find and apply what LAURA calls OPRAH Courage.”

“Asking should come as easily and as naturally as walking, smiling, and breathing. Yet, the fear of ASKING is right up there with fear of heights, public speaking and spiders – the most fearful is ASKING for our OWN needs and for our OWN money.says LAURA.

LAURA’s solution: “If you have the courage, the inspiration and the know-how, you can ASK your way into having the life and career you need, want and deserve – by simply knowing how to A$K for it.”

Tips, tools and best practices from the series can be used in any facet of everyday life – in finance, careers, health and relationships – and applied instantly at any time, from anywhere. For example,

While SUZE ORMAN teaches you how to spend and save money,
LAURA teaches you “How to A$K for Money — and More of It”

While DR. OZ advocates for your everyday health concerns,
LAURA reveals “The Questions You Are NOT ASKING Your Doctor That Could Save You $$$”

While DR. PHIL negotiates for family resolution,
LAURA shows you “How to Take the Fear Out of ASKING for Better Relationships”

Just ASK LAURA how!

askSeriesHeadshotLAURA has appeared as “The Expert on THE ASK©” on KATIE’s TAKE providing Katie Couric and her ABC News | Yahoo News viewers with tips on “How to Ask for What You Want.”

Her “Asking Strategies for Better Living” have also found themselves on the pages of popular lifestyle publications such as The Huffington PostWomen’s HealthSHAPESelfand The Bridal Guideas well as in major market newspapers.

The Chicago Tribune featured LAURA’s “Easy to Please Asking Tactics” that deliver How To Get Exactly What You Want (Or Don’t Want!) On Valentine’s Day.”

Listeners to radio programs on New York’s WOR, Chicago’s WGN and Sirius XM Satellite Radio have also been benefitting from LAURA’s motivational voice with tips on “How to Ask for Travel Upgrades” and “Questions You Are Not Asking Your Doctor that Could Cost You $$$.”

In the corporate sector, LAURA’s “Financial Asking Philosophies” have been featured in The Wall Street Journal and in the Financial Advisor IQ, as well as on WSJ Live: Dow Jones Wealth Advisor. She has provided entrepreneurs with tips on “How to Snag a Superstar Client Simply by Knowing How to Ask for Them.”

For more tips, visit THE ASK© TIPLINE, click on green highlights, or simply, 

Just ASK LAURA how!

LAURA has helped organizations worldwide raise multi-millions through LAURA’s unique approach to cultivating top dollar portfolios. LAURA comes as an expert consultant, amongst the nation’s top advisors in fundraising. Her expertise stems from a legal career enhanced by her leadership tenure at numerous nonprofit organizations across academic, health, and social service arenas. LAURA is now today’s leading authority on teaching the secrets of THE ASK©. She provides hands-on, expert advising and best practices for raising significant money, efficiently and effectively.

Of THE ASK©, VERIZON’s Chairman and Chief Executive Officer Ivan G. Seidenburg says, “LAURA knows how to coach others to get the results they want. Her strategies for success apply to the business and nonprofit world, the institutional and the personal spheres — and her books translate those strategies into concrete advice about how to turn your goals into action, no matter what the setting.”

Others who have found success through THE ASK©:

Central Park Conservancy American Heart Association Humane Society Planned Parenthood PRET Dress For Success Operation Homefront Image Map

As an attorney-turned-philanthropic advisor, LAURA FREDRICKS knows how to ASK. She has enjoyed a lengthy and successful career in industries best known for making high profile, multi-million dollar A$KS – law and philanthropy – and is the first to merge strategies from both professional sectors into a mainstream practice known as THE ASK©.

This new practice has placed LAURA on the national and international speaking circuits at conferences around the world from Amsterdam to Ann Arbor, Bologna to Boca Raton, Kenya to Kentucky, Moscow to Montreal, Sydney to Seattle, plus Australia, Italy, and the Netherlands.

THE ASK© has also led LAURA to TV and radio appearances on local talk shows across the nation, and her expertise has been featured in national publications. Her four books on “How to A$K© for Money – and More of It” have become industry leaders. New books with “Asking Advice for Everyday Living” are coming soon.



LAURA’s energetic style entertains, energizes and educates audiences both from a local, national and global perspective. Internationally, she presented Fundraising for Political Campaigns and Businesses” to the Moscow chapter of the Women’s Democracy Network. At Bologna’s Festival del Fundraising, she shared “How to ASK: Learn from the American Model. For The Global Economic Russia Forum, LAURA spoke on Maximizing Philanthropy during Economic Recovery,” and in the Netherlands at the International Fundraising Congress, LAURA presented “How to ASK individuals for Money.”

Among today’s top fundraising advisors, LAURA also presents annually at the Association of Fundraising Professional’s (AFP) International Conference and has been the keynote speaker for numerous AFP Chapters, International Web Conferences, district conferences for the Council for Advancement and Support for Education, Planned Giving Councils, and Community Foundations.



LAURA is currently the author of four industry leading books under the umbrella of THE A$K© Literary Series. Each book, also translated into Russian, focuses on “How to A$K© for Money – and More of It.”

LAURA’s books offer time-tested tips, tools and best practices for acquiring financial rewards – and more of them. Readers will learn to acquire financial growth and monetary sustainability.

All four books in this series have become the “go-to” guides for numerous organizations around the globe as well as for academic courses at prestigious universities. The series is the source material behind LAURA’s THE ASK© Speaking Series for PHILANTHROPY, BUSINESS and EVERYDAY LIVING. Books are available on AMAZON. To purchase, click on book:


In addition to her philanthropy work, LAURA also teaches nonprofit business management and fundraising techniques to master’s degree candidates at Columbia University, New York University, Duke University, University of Pennsylvania, The Smithsonian Institute, and The Harvard and Princeton Clubs. Her courses cover nonprofit leadership, fundraising trends, major gifts, planned giving, special events, and capital campaigns. She has been teaching since 1994 and is a current advisory board member for New York University and Columbia University’s Masters in Fundraising Programs.



LAURA entered the fundraising field serving as the Philadelphia Bar Foundation’s Director of Development where she launched a major gifts program that increased individual giving by more than 75 percent. During this time, she was also Deputy Attorney General for the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania.

As vice president of philanthropy at Pace University in New York City, LAURA was behind an unprecedented $100 million charitable raise during a six-year-campaign period. In this role, she oversaw all aspects of fundraising and alumni relations for a staff of forty across five campuses.

Prior to her tenure at Pace, LAURA was associate vice president for development at Philadelphia’s Temple University where she managed and coordinated major and planned giving programs, corporate and foundation funding, and alumni relations for fifteen schools and colleges, two hospitals, and the athletic program. She raised a benchmark $1 million for Temple University’s School of Medicine annual fund.

As major gifts manager for the Deborah Hospital Foundation, LAURA elevated the major gift program from $50,000 to $6.1 million from grateful patients in one year.

In addition to her contributions to academic boards, LAURA also serves as a board member for the Association of Fundraising Professionals (AFP), Greater New York Chapter. She has also been active with the AFP as an executive board member for the Greater Philadelphia Chapter and as a committee member on the national level, as well with the International Association of Fundraising Professionals.

She currently sits on the executive board of OPERATION HOMEFRONT, an organization that supports military families in need and is also a board member of New York’s Cherry Lane Theater, the oldest continuously running off-Broadway theatrical house. In addition, LAURA has been a long-time volunteer with Big Brothers, Big Sisters.



Prior to a seasoned philanthropic career, LAURA practiced law as a deputy attorney general IV for the Attorney General’s Office of the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania, specializing in civil litigation and representing health, education, and social service state agencies. One of her groundbreaking First Amendment Cases was successfully resolved in the US Supreme Court. LAURA clerked for an appellate court judge in Pennsylvania, and worked for several newspapers as well as for Newsweek magazine. In addition to a law degree from Western New England University School of Law, she holds a journalism degree from Rutgers College.


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A Multi-Million Dollar A$K-Maker



International Motivational Speaker * Industry Leading Author * Media Expert
Nation’s Top Advisor on Fundraising * 
Ivy League Lecturer * Civil Litigation Attorney